Pursuer & Distancer Dynamics

Do you run away or do You chase? You feel overwhelmed and angry, and decide to make a bee – line for another room, or to leave the house altogether. And Your partner? They just can’t seem to leave you alone. Every few seconds your phone pings with an incoming message “Where are you?”, “Why…

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Reconnecting with Your Partner.

I’m sure that whenever I speak about great sex, everyone’s minds go off on a tangent of their fairy tale sex life. For each person the words “great sex”, means something different.  For me, the way I define it is, the experience that creates a union so powerful and so loving that it gives them…

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The One thing everyone wants…

I am hoping as I write this to you that you will either one day know or hopefully NOW know a truth. You are indeed extraordinary. And look I get it, whenever someone says this to You, You may be riddled with “No, can’t be”. “Really? Don’t bullshit me” or or various other thoughts that…

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