Masturbation & Solo Practice for men
Every man should have a solo pleasure practice rooted in mindfulness
Solo s3x practices teaches you how to be present, what does presence offer You?
It offers you the ability to create much deeper relationships with your partner. It also creates a communal space of safety and security, because you’re no longer clocking out when it comes to the important parts of your relationship.
And it also helps to evolve your relationship past just being a relationship. But into something that is holy and deeply sacred and safe. This practice doesn’t need porn, or imagery of other women or men.
Presence is the key to tremendous intimacy …
No this process is deeply rooted in you being present to your body and to your sensations, and this – this makes you magnetic. Because this allows you to last longer, not just that, Your partner is also sensitive to the fact that you’re being totally present in the moment of NOW with them.
Empower Your relationship by feeding it the right nourishment.
And this – this is priceless and precious in relationships. Giving someone such deep regard that they feel that they are totally being seen and experienced in total truth. I’ve said this many times before, everyone knows how to do sex.
But few understand true deep connected intimacy where your souls are connected on such a deep level that you you can have a climax without any stimulation because you’re so tuned into each other.
I have had many women tell me that they feel their partners are “molesting” themselves and that it feels horrible to them. I want to lay some science on You here. Masturbation is incredible and it can be a very healing tool when used correctly in Your relationship.
Men require sexual release a lot, it is just part of their biological makeup. Masturbation is in fact a way of self love, and you should never rely on your partner for Your pleasure, regardless of your orientation.
I encourage men and women to take full responsibility for their own pleasure, why? Because it teaches you more about yourself. And not just that. But the orgasms are very healing and medicinal in their own right.
So when it comes to masturbation, I encourage men to have a solo practice. But not just a quick “yank” but to make it a sacred experience for them. Learning how to breathe properly and how to be inside their bodies and how to move their energy in their bodies.
We have amazing energy and nerve energy that allows our Parasympathetic nervous system to come online
When our PNS is activated, it allows us to relax and to think better, it also allows our bodies to release feel good hormones and on top of that helps to reduce inflammation. But as I said, it shouldn’t just be the plain old mindless yanking that many men do.
But rather a deeper experience of self love, breathwork and working with the sensations in your body. This allows all the healthy hormones to be released so that You have a healthier relationship based on sacred presence with Your body.
That is special and truly magical. Want to know more about this? Feel free to send me a message or apply to work with me.
To Your epic Love